You've been on my mind even more than usual Mum. Life is great, Your grandsons are doing well and your great grandchildren are just gorgeous. Both Mal and I are happy, relaxed and very retired. Thank you for everything, always. Not a day goes by where I don't talk to you and I know you and Ad are both around, guiding me. xxxxx

Hi again Mum. It is coming up to two years since Dad left us, two years since he moved in with you. Nothing much is changing - Geoff and Nerine continue to milk the estate rather than work for their existence, they continue to lie and sadly, suffer from Alzeihmers when it suits them. What goes around, comes around and this too shall pass - in my favour. They think they are hurting me but all they are doing is making a disgrace of themselves and unfortunately the Cummins name. Dad had it picked though. He knew what they would do. You were very good to us and I acknowledge that now and also acknowledge that I should have more when you were alive. You did the best you could do and had every good intention. I trust that you are resting in peace Mum and know that you are with me each and every day. xx Sharelle

Well Mum, So much has changed from when you were with us. The family unit has gone and Nerine and Geoff won't recognise me for who I am and what I did. They don't talk to me except through solicitors and won't allow me to be recompensed for all that is owing. Dad predicted it and I know he is with you now saying, "I told you so." You did your best within your limitations to help raise us and you never expected something for nothing. I am like that too and proud of it. Dad used to always say that we should expect nothing and then we can't be upset. So true, such wise words. I talk to you each and every day, especially now that I am housebound. You are everywhere, with Dad. I feel it and I love it. I wish I could grab a hug from you or just a whisper in my ear whilst I am sleeping. I love you and miss you and above all else, I try to live my life in the way Dad taught me - to give, to work hard, to make a difference. xxxxx

Well, we just celebrated our third Christmas without you and I for one missed you more than ever. All the time something happens or someone says something that reminds me of you. People are saying that I look like you and I take that as a great compliment. I love you more than ever mum and will continue to do so for all the years of my life. Dad is doing well. He is on one of his camping/fishing trips at the moment and from what I can tell when I speak to him is that he is loving it. I will continue to do everything I can for him. I love you so much mum, Nerine

Dear Mum, Two years now - wow, time flies. Dad came down last Wednesday, with Nerine. He looks great and seems to be OK, but I am sure that he has his dark days. We are all fine but Nerine still has her wobblies! You will be proud of me Mum - 65kg now and still going down! Yippee!!!! I know you are up there looking out for us - you proved that to me last Wednesday morning when I was sitting in the sitting room. You spoke to me - so clearly......and your message rang true. We miss you still but are healing. Love, Sharelle xxx

Dear Mum, Two years now - wow, time flies. Dad came down last Wednesday, with Nerine. He looks great and seems to be OK, but I am sure that he has his dark days. We are all fine but Nerine still has her wobblies! You will be proud of me Mum - 65kg now and still going down! Yippee!!!! I know you are up there looking out for us - you proved that to me last Wednesday morning when I was sitting in the sitting room. You spoke to me - so clearly......and your message rang true. We miss you still but are healing. Love, Sharelle xxx

Dear Mum, Two years now - wow, time flies. Dad came down last Wednesday, with Nerine. He looks great and seems to be OK, but I am sure that he has his dark days. We are all fine but Nerine still has her wobblies! You will be proud of me Mum - 65kg now and still going down! Yippee!!!! I know you are up there looking out for us - you proved that to me last Wednesday morning when I was sitting in the sitting room. You spoke to me - so clearly......and your message rang true. We miss you still but are healing. Love, Sharelle xxx

Sharelle, Remember riding your bike around Lugarno about 35 years ago? Sorry to hear about your mum. Stumbled on this site by chance. I was looking for people I knew in Lugarno. Have been back to Lugarno Parade to do a little work. Still very quite. Too many speed humps though. Hope you're keeping well. All the best, kind regards Glen. jmpeters@bigpond.com

Hi Mum, Dad is in need of some help at the moment. He has a big week ahead of him. The Doctors are trying to save his leg at the moment and with all our thoughts we are trying to get through this next week with success. Dad should then be able to have some quality of life. Mum we all know you would do something if you were able. We all think of you every day. Love you Mum Miss you lots. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Mum, I still feel you every day and think about you constantly. You are very much missed and will always be loved. Dad also misses you so much but is doing so well. Coming to christmas we will be remembering you but I am sure you are having a ball up there with Aunty Shirley. Say hi to her for me and also the pops and nans. With all my love, Nerine

Mum, nearly one year has passed - and still we talk about you and think of you every minute of every day. Dad is doing well and your rose garden is beautiful. We are all fine Mum - and closer than ever. Hope you are out of pain and giving Elizabeth Taylor the rounds of the kitchen! I love you Mum. Sharelle xoxoxoxox

Mum, nearly one year has passed - and still we talk about you and think of you every minute of every day. Dad is doing well and your rose garden is beautiful. We are all fine Mum - and closer than ever. Hope you are out of pain and giving Elizabeth Taylor the rounds of the kitchen! I love you Mum. Sharelle xoxoxoxox

Mum you would been proud of of the kids yesterday, they did you proud Mum you will be dearly missed. I Love You. Love Geoff xxxxxxxxxxx